Why a threesome is good for your sex life

Why a threesome is good for your sex life

First, sex and love are totally two different things. As much as sex is enjoyable it is only, but a flavor of love. Love itself is a wholesome package of trust, friendship and partnership in life. It is a long-term engagement and commitment of caring and being there for your partner. However, sex is not necessary a long term engagement and also it is regarded as an expression of love. The way we approach sex is different from love although our social cultures seem to make love and sex inseparable or summarize them into one thing.

Sex is the fire of romance and basically the core activity that binds lovers. Whether you choose a monogamous arrangement or an open marriage, it is still common for sex to hold a central position defining your love and the nature of your relationship. In all honesty whatever the arrangement or nature of your relationship there is nothing as liberating and uplifting as openness in a relationship about sex and living true to yourself. It is both mentally and emotionally freeing to express yourself sexually whether in a relationship or not. In fact, the more aware and in control you are of your sexuality, the better.

It is one thing to have fantasies and it is another thing to act them out. Having a sexually liberating relationship which a threesome is doable is one of the healthiest things you can do with your sex life.
Contrary to popular belief and hearsay, a threesome hold positive effects on your mental and emotional health once you have given up your inhibitions and let your desires and lusting come to the open for nourishment.

A threesome will open you up to accept your sexuality as wild as it maybe which will stop from the self-discrimination for wanting diversity when it comes to sex. It will also liberate you from limiting thoughts about sex or trying to fit sex in a limited sex of one-man one-woman kind of arrangement. It will also give you the empowerment to feel comfortable with your impulses and desire for kink.

A threesome is inherently a curative element of sexual relations whereby you learn to trust your partner and welcome other parties or rather the third into your sex space. It is a foundation for making strong emotional connection and letting the new sexual encounter shape your notion of sex as a sharing activity rather than a selfish act of getting off. A threesome can also open room for a much needed break of monotony from the routine sex between you and your lover. It also presents a new perspective to appreciate sex as an acting of giving and pleasuring other than the primitive sense of the ownership of partners and blind demands for exclusivity out of jealousy than affection.